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Getting Ready For The New Year: Boundary Setting

Getting Ready For The New Year: Boundary Setting

Facing the new year is as much about planning what you want to do, as it is about being clear about what you do not want to continue doing! Get clear about your boundaries and experience more sexual and emotional happiness and pleasure in the new year!

Are You Asking The Right Questions?: What To Ask To Understand Your Partner Earlier

Are You Asking The Right Questions?: What To Ask To Understand Your Partner Earlier

This week, let’s get real about getting real. Your life isn’t a movie, you don’t have to wait to the end to know what if your date and you are a match. Get to know your partner better and faster.

“I Don't Mean To Be Rude But”: Is Your Politeness Spoiling Your Sex Life?

“I Don't Mean To Be Rude But”: Is Your Politeness Spoiling Your Sex Life?

You know what you want from sex, but you don’t want to rock the boat. So this week All The F.U.Q.s is exposing the potential consequences of being exhaustingly polite, and how to better and more healthily get what you want.

Say What You Want From Sex: It Makes All The Difference!

Say What You Want From Sex: It Makes All The Difference!

Yeaa it was easier when you were younger, but are you really saying what you want from sex? It may not be easy but it is crucial to true sexual freedom and real sexual pleasure.

All The FUQs is here to help with self-advocacy to help you say and get what you want from sex.

MeToo: What Does The Solution Look Like?

MeToo: What Does The Solution Look Like?

Given that we are nearing the end of Mental Health Month and after what are now closer-to-fact-than rumor discussions of Harvey Weinstein’s civil suit settlement, I need a mental break to consider one question: What does the real solution or solutions look like?

Sex and Technology: Masturbation

Sex and Technology: Masturbation

Happy Masturbation Month! Sex, technology and masturbation are three words that have worked well together for a very long time. Masturbation is great for our health, our self happiness and our relationships. When done properly, it is both pleasurable and fun. Last week, we talked about how technology has expanded contraception; well with masturbation, the options for safe sexual pleasure are extensive!

So hit the link for all the ways that you can use sex to masturbate alone or with your partner!

After Sex: What Do You Do After Sex?

After Sex: What Do You Do After Sex?

Post-Coitus, Post Boom-Boom, When The Naughty Party Ends…however you want to refer to it… I’m curios about what happens after sex. The “after sex part” is something that isn’t referred to much, but shouldn’t it be? So where’s the appreciation of after sex?

Sex Talk with the Aunties

Sex Talk with the Aunties

One of the most intimidating things can be talking with an older family member about sex, but it doesn’t have to be. Dialogue about sex with older people in your family can be freeing, if they have the right intentions and ask thoughtful questions.  Check out D’s experience and how refreshing and empowering “the sex talk” can be.

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt is a serious S.O.B. We all know it, its annoying, an we are over it! All The FUQs is addressing the doubt in a relationship that we have all experienced, sexual, romantic, or friendly and how you can address it.