In quarantine, after the days all begin to blend together, you’ve finished all the new episodes you wanted to watch on Netflix, and your partner has officially gotten on your LAST nerves a sex toy might just be the solution to your problems.
The coronavirus has certainly had us cage up, sometimes with the people we love, like or by ourselves. But any way you slice it, a lot of us are very much over staying in our homes.
While the bad news is that we will have to stay in our homes for some time to come, the good news is a sex toy can be a fun way to pass the time and add spice into your relationship.
This week, I am reviewing the Fondlove male masturbator cup for him, from Bestvibe, to share with you what I have learned about the toy, and how you can use it to make your quarantine time with bae fun!
So whether you are alone with a free hand, or looking for something new to try with bae, this review of the Fondlove male masturbator cup by Bestvibe, might just be for you too!
Sex Toys During Coronavirus
If you are thinking, who would be interested in sex toys during quarantine, do me a favor and search sex toys during coronavirus into Google. You will quickly find that the answer is EVERYBODY!
Sex toys are a natural part of foreplay, sex, and afterplay. But often time, we do not have the desired time to enjoy the toys we have, let alone purchase new ones.
This coronavirus quarantine has forced us into a rare situation where we have nothing but time and wifi connection to burn.
So now rather than wondering, if it is worth buy any toy, the question is now, which toy should you buy!
So this week, I am giving you my thoughts on the Fondlove Male Automatic Masturbator by Bestvibe, and if this toy is worthwhile to pass the time!
How To Try Out A New Sex Toy
Trying out something new can be weird. Trying out a new sex toy can certainly feel weird, especially if you are trying it out with your partner. So it can feel a bit tricky trying to introduce your toy into the bedroom.
Remember toys do not replace you, they help you!
It is a common misconceptions that sex toys are somehow replacing you or your partner in the bedroom. For some, sex toys like the Fondlove male masturbator cup would be seen as competition.
This could not be further from the truth. Sex toys, like the this are meant to help you to enhance pleasure and take pressure OFF of you! The use of a sex toy can help heighten foreplay and lengthen intercourse and pleasure.
Talk about it before hand
We do not always know for sure how a partner will respond to a sex toy. This goes double if you are in a newer relationship or introducing a new kind of toy. It is always good practice to communicate with your partner if you want to introduce a sex toy into the bedroom.
Not only does it help you make sure that you are both on the same page, you might just tap into their fantasies too! It is not uncommon that interest to buy one toy becomes a “his and hers” gift!
Enjoy the Discovery!
Practice makes perfect! Do not get caught up in using the toy perfectly that you forget to have fun! You already bought the toy, so you have time to get to use it over and over again.
But if you are nervous about using it properly, you can always read the instructions ahead of time, check out how-tos online, or reach out to a sex coach like myself for help!
Why the Fondlove Male Masturbator Cup?
While at home with nothing but time, both me and my partner have been happy to have access to toys like the Male Masturbator. But the question is why might you consider this toy, right?
Shipping:
With all of us getting everything shipped to us now, discretion is super important when it come to sex toys. What is great about this toy and others from Bestvibe is that the packaging is discreet. It comes in a container that is great for storing too once you’ve started using your Masturbator.
Look:
The Fondlove male masturbator by Bestvibe, has a sleek build and finish. Coming in jet black, this male masturbator is simple and friendly to use. With a smooth finish, it is easy hold with a comfortable grip for you or your partner.
Feel:
Feel: This masturbator is shaped to snugly and comfortable fit a penis in its chamber. Made out of silicone, it is both soft and snug, for a great fit.
Attributes:
Vibrations Pulsing Suction: As you might have experienced, with every toy, you and your partner have to find the use that works best for you. The Fondlove male masturbator cup lets you find the right setting for you, including 7 pulse levels and 14 vibration levels. It is also built with a dual motor that covers you for the full 360 degrees!
The vibrations and pulses are on the gentler side, so if you are looking for a more intense sensation, this particular toy would not be for you.
USB chargeable: At this point, if a toy does not come with a USB charge, I’m less likely to be interested; so it is really great that the Fondlove cup comes with a USB rechargeable plug, so you don’t have to go hunting for batteries.
Noise level: From experience, I am happy to report that this toy is certainly quiet! It can certainly ruin the mood when you want to set the mood, turn on your toy, and it sounds like a lawn mower!
Easy to clean: This male masturbator has an sleek build and is made of silicone, both of whih lead to it being easy to clean with safe soap and some warm water. What is also great is that this silicone toy works very well and feel good with a nice water-based lubricant.
When this sex toy might be helpful:
Lengthen time to orgasm
For men that have been enduring premature ejaculation, this toy can be of aid to help. Because of its more gentle vibrations, masturbator cups can be a helpful way to train your body to extend time before climax.
This is the gift that will be appreciated by both you and bae. Over time, you can learn the signs and signals before climax and be able to slow your body from being too stimulated too quickly.
Communicating what feels good
Ever wanted your partner to do something different when it comes to oral sex? Sex toys can be a great way for you or your partner to learn new things about your body together.
Sometimes, experimenting can feel like a long task that we do not want to make time for. Other times we can feel judged when we are trying something new without being really sure what we are doing.
Sex toys like the Fondlove cup can help you and your partner learn your body without feeling like there is judgment being passed.
Spice things up in the bedroom/ quickies
We all know that the same three sex moves (the hers, the his, the ours) will not suffice forever. At some time you will need to spice things up! Sex toys like male masturbation cups can help you do just that.
By using different combinations of the pulse levels and vibration levels you can built yourself to a more prolonged and intense orgasm.
Or when you or your partner want to quickly orgasm, a male masturbator can help you see that through very quickly!
To Wrap It Up
Not every sex toy is for everyone, but there is a sex toy for everyone. The Fondlove male masturbation cup give a more gentle suction, and may be better fit for those looking for a beginners toy or a more gradual build up!
With its discreet packaging and easy to use features, it is certainly something worth looking into!
The F.U.Q.s
Not every sex toy is for everyone, but there is a sex toy that for everyone
Quarantine will be what we make of it. This is time where relationships will be tested to make stronger if we allow it
Sex is meant to be fun! Sex toys can help make sure that it is!
