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MeToo: What Does The Solution Look Like?

MeToo: What Does The Solution Look Like?

Given that we are nearing the end of Mental Health Month and after what are now closer-to-fact-than rumor discussions of Harvey Weinstein’s civil suit settlement, I need a mental break to consider one question: What does the real solution or solutions look like?

A Sex Two-Piece : Mental Health & Masturbation

A Sex Two-Piece : Mental Health & Masturbation

It is both Masturbation and Mental Health Month! And this combo makes perfect sense to us as All The F.U.Qs. Why? Well, a major part of sex, pleasure, and sexual enjoyment is mental. All we often worry about is being physically apt, but when we are mentally checked out, sex can be be unenjoyable and even hurtful. Masturbation, though can be a low threshold way for us to combat our mental anxieties or alleviate stresses that take up way too much space.

Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?

Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?

This is Women’s History Month y’all and I am wondering what makes up a woman? It is fantastic as a black woman to be able to see and celebrate people similar to you who have been able to do incredible things, but what I am I supposed to do with that? Considering the past, how can I woman up in 2019?

Sex Talk with the Aunties

Sex Talk with the Aunties

One of the most intimidating things can be talking with an older family member about sex, but it doesn’t have to be. Dialogue about sex with older people in your family can be freeing, if they have the right intentions and ask thoughtful questions.  Check out D’s experience and how refreshing and empowering “the sex talk” can be.

I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice

I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice

Orgasms don’t just happen. They require an understanding of your body, patience in mind, and pleasure in the moment. I could not enjoy a penetrative orgasm for a long time. That is not longer the case. Hit the link and see why.

Rough Sex While Black

Rough Sex While Black

Rough sex can be hot, fun and exhilarating, but is as black folk, is rough sex while black ok? This week on All The FUQs, check out my thoughts on rough sex while black and come back next week on tips to have safe and enjoyable rough sex, you and your partner can enjoy.

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression and lack of motivation. I have been thinking less of myself and operating out of fear by not operating at all. So this week with All The FUQs I’m taking a moment to reflect and be kind to myself. Hard to do but something I’ve learned can get you further than beating yourself up.

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing during sex can be an incredible way to relax in bed. The reasons why you laugh in bed can be a great way to get to know yourself and your partner. This week J talks about what makes her and her partner laugh in bed, other sounds that come up in the bedroom, and and what it all means.

November Beard | Taking Advantage of No Shave November

November Beard | Taking Advantage of No Shave November

Movember is here! Thats right no shave November or beard November is when we get to party with men who have been growing out their beards for the entire month of November. Ever wonder why? Before getting ready to twerk on the bearded beau, find out the real point behind Movember and male health.

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt is a serious S.O.B. We all know it, its annoying, an we are over it! All The FUQs is addressing the doubt in a relationship that we have all experienced, sexual, romantic, or friendly and how you can address it.