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Sex Coaching - What Is A Sex Coach & Do You Need One?

Sex Coaching - What Is A Sex Coach & Do You Need One?

What is a sex coach? Is that the same as an intimacy coach? Hear it from a Brooklyn-based sex coach what a sex coach does and why you might want to see a sex coach.

Sex and Technology: Masturbation

Sex and Technology: Masturbation

Happy Masturbation Month! Sex, technology and masturbation are three words that have worked well together for a very long time. Masturbation is great for our health, our self happiness and our relationships. When done properly, it is both pleasurable and fun. Last week, we talked about how technology has expanded contraception; well with masturbation, the options for safe sexual pleasure are extensive!

So hit the link for all the ways that you can use sex to masturbate alone or with your partner!

Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?

Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?

This is Women’s History Month y’all and I am wondering what makes up a woman? It is fantastic as a black woman to be able to see and celebrate people similar to you who have been able to do incredible things, but what I am I supposed to do with that? Considering the past, how can I woman up in 2019?

I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice

I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice

Orgasms don’t just happen. They require an understanding of your body, patience in mind, and pleasure in the moment. I could not enjoy a penetrative orgasm for a long time. That is not longer the case. Hit the link and see why.

Sexting: Should We?

Sexting: Should We?

Considering this is a sex blog, it only makes sense to talk about sexting! Sex and technology have been finding more and more interesting ways to overlap and merge overtime meanwhile safety and privacy are considered less important to consider. So the question remains, is there a sexting guide that create a safe way to sext? And is it for us?

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex with the lights on can be awkward, weird, and certainly un-sexy. Unless you decide that its not. We all have these made up ideas of why sex with the lights on is not for us, but are we missing out?

Rough Sex While Black

Rough Sex While Black

Rough sex can be hot, fun and exhilarating, but is as black folk, is rough sex while black ok? This week on All The FUQs, check out my thoughts on rough sex while black and come back next week on tips to have safe and enjoyable rough sex, you and your partner can enjoy.

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Before we get too deep into 2019, and drop these New Year’s resolutions for actual bad habits - what can we bring over from 2018? When it comes to sex and sexual health, 2018 has been a huge year for truth and change. So let’s take a moment to recap what 2018 taught us about sex and happiness.

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy sex it never talked about but hard to avoid. Well this week, if you can’t avoid it join it! Check out my best and worst messy sex experience and learn just how to make messy sex work for you.

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing during sex can be an incredible way to relax in bed. The reasons why you laugh in bed can be a great way to get to know yourself and your partner. This week J talks about what makes her and her partner laugh in bed, other sounds that come up in the bedroom, and and what it all means.