sex communication

Getting Ready For The New Year: Boundary Setting

Getting Ready For The New Year: Boundary Setting

Facing the new year is as much about planning what you want to do, as it is about being clear about what you do not want to continue doing! Get clear about your boundaries and experience more sexual and emotional happiness and pleasure in the new year!

Are You Asking The Right Questions?: What To Ask To Understand Your Partner Earlier

Are You Asking The Right Questions?: What To Ask To Understand Your Partner Earlier

This week, let’s get real about getting real. Your life isn’t a movie, you don’t have to wait to the end to know what if your date and you are a match. Get to know your partner better and faster.

“I Don't Mean To Be Rude But”: Is Your Politeness Spoiling Your Sex Life?

“I Don't Mean To Be Rude But”: Is Your Politeness Spoiling Your Sex Life?

You know what you want from sex, but you don’t want to rock the boat. So this week All The F.U.Q.s is exposing the potential consequences of being exhaustingly polite, and how to better and more healthily get what you want.

Say What You Want From Sex: It Makes All The Difference!

Say What You Want From Sex: It Makes All The Difference!

Yeaa it was easier when you were younger, but are you really saying what you want from sex? It may not be easy but it is crucial to true sexual freedom and real sexual pleasure.

All The FUQs is here to help with self-advocacy to help you say and get what you want from sex.

Sex Talk with the Aunties

Sex Talk with the Aunties

One of the most intimidating things can be talking with an older family member about sex, but it doesn’t have to be. Dialogue about sex with older people in your family can be freeing, if they have the right intentions and ask thoughtful questions.  Check out D’s experience and how refreshing and empowering “the sex talk” can be.

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex with the lights on can be awkward, weird, and certainly un-sexy. Unless you decide that its not. We all have these made up ideas of why sex with the lights on is not for us, but are we missing out?

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing during sex can be an incredible way to relax in bed. The reasons why you laugh in bed can be a great way to get to know yourself and your partner. This week J talks about what makes her and her partner laugh in bed, other sounds that come up in the bedroom, and and what it all means.

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt is a serious S.O.B. We all know it, its annoying, an we are over it! All The FUQs is addressing the doubt in a relationship that we have all experienced, sexual, romantic, or friendly and how you can address it.

Lost Libido in Men|Expectations Put on Men

Lost Libido in Men|Expectations Put on Men

A lost libido is just one of the many natural and normal things that happen to men that are rarely discussed. Often by those of the same and opposite gender, we are pressured to an unbelievable and unnecessary standard. This week I mention, how we do this to men.