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Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex with the lights on can be awkward, weird, and certainly un-sexy. Unless you decide that its not. We all have these made up ideas of why sex with the lights on is not for us, but are we missing out?

Rough Sex While Black

Rough Sex While Black

Rough sex can be hot, fun and exhilarating, but is as black folk, is rough sex while black ok? This week on All The FUQs, check out my thoughts on rough sex while black and come back next week on tips to have safe and enjoyable rough sex, you and your partner can enjoy.

Morning Sex | Why It Really Helps

Morning Sex | Why It Really Helps

What is your memory from the first time you had morning sex? With West Indian parents who were cool, but not that cool, learning the ways around morning sex was something I didn’t have to worry about for a while. But now, I know the importance of morning sex is crucial to my sexual and personal happiness. Find out how.

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Before we get too deep into 2019, and drop these New Year’s resolutions for actual bad habits - what can we bring over from 2018? When it comes to sex and sexual health, 2018 has been a huge year for truth and change. So let’s take a moment to recap what 2018 taught us about sex and happiness.

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression and lack of motivation. I have been thinking less of myself and operating out of fear by not operating at all. So this week with All The FUQs I’m taking a moment to reflect and be kind to myself. Hard to do but something I’ve learned can get you further than beating yourself up.

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy sex it never talked about but hard to avoid. Well this week, if you can’t avoid it join it! Check out my best and worst messy sex experience and learn just how to make messy sex work for you.

Bonnets in Bed - The Addendum

Bonnets in Bed - The Addendum

Last week we asked is black hair bed rituals bad for sex in bed? Now we are asking, should it be? Your hair, your say. Check the link for more!

Bonnets in Bed - Is A Bedtime Headscarf Bad For Sex?

Bonnets in Bed - Is A Bedtime Headscarf Bad For Sex?

When it comes to hair and sex, people of color know things can get a little complicated because we need to wrap our hair before bed. Whether you are rocking cornrows, a fro, a weave, or just looking to keep your waves right, AllTheFUQs is here to help you be practical and sexy at the same time.

Advice on 6 Things Black Girls Should Know About Sex Part. 1

Advice on 6 Things Black Girls Should Know About Sex Part. 1

Whether you are curious about having sex for the first time or have experience, chances are you've heard sex lies about what sex is supposed to be. In communities of color, sex is typically not discussed at all or discussed improperly and tardily.  For black women, the lack of healthy sexual discussion from a young age, has had serious consequences in our discovery of our sexuality, sexual experiences, and our sexual identities.  

Just the Tip: 10 Lies We Tell About Sex

Just the Tip: 10 Lies We Tell About Sex

Before sex, we fib about stealing cookies and breaking stuff when we know we are already caught. And then, before and after we become sexually experienced, the lies remain equally ridiculous and unbelievable.

How many of lies below have you said or heard?