black women

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression and lack of motivation. I have been thinking less of myself and operating out of fear by not operating at all. So this week with All The FUQs I’m taking a moment to reflect and be kind to myself. Hard to do but something I’ve learned can get you further than beating yourself up.

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy sex it never talked about but hard to avoid. Well this week, if you can’t avoid it join it! Check out my best and worst messy sex experience and learn just how to make messy sex work for you.

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt in a Relationship | Sex and Relationships0

Doubt is a serious S.O.B. We all know it, its annoying, an we are over it! All The FUQs is addressing the doubt in a relationship that we have all experienced, sexual, romantic, or friendly and how you can address it.

Lost Libido in Men|Expectations Put on Men

Lost Libido in Men|Expectations Put on Men

A lost libido is just one of the many natural and normal things that happen to men that are rarely discussed. Often by those of the same and opposite gender, we are pressured to an unbelievable and unnecessary standard. This week I mention, how we do this to men.

Bonnets in Bed - The Addendum

Bonnets in Bed - The Addendum

Last week we asked is black hair bed rituals bad for sex in bed? Now we are asking, should it be? Your hair, your say. Check the link for more!

Bonnets in Bed - Is A Bedtime Headscarf Bad For Sex?

Bonnets in Bed - Is A Bedtime Headscarf Bad For Sex?

When it comes to hair and sex, people of color know things can get a little complicated because we need to wrap our hair before bed. Whether you are rocking cornrows, a fro, a weave, or just looking to keep your waves right, AllTheFUQs is here to help you be practical and sexy at the same time.

Advice on 6 Things Black Girls Should Know About Sex Part. 1

Advice on 6 Things Black Girls Should Know About Sex Part. 1

Whether you are curious about having sex for the first time or have experience, chances are you've heard sex lies about what sex is supposed to be. In communities of color, sex is typically not discussed at all or discussed improperly and tardily.  For black women, the lack of healthy sexual discussion from a young age, has had serious consequences in our discovery of our sexuality, sexual experiences, and our sexual identities.