Hello people of color! The weather is heating up and you may be too. For many of you, “cuffing season” came to an end with the first hint at weather past 70 degrees and you are more than ready to see what this sexy summer has to offer. Let's be real, our skin, sun-kissed with a thin gloss of sweat. Whew!
With black and brown sexual health still on the mind, it's possible to have sexy fun and still be safe and healthy. You are out more, living your best life, seeing so many more people and you body can’t help but react. So how do you turn up this summer while remaining sexually health and secure?
Safe Sex.
There is still a need for safe sex. You and your partner might find yourself to be hornier and wetter faster. That does not mean that there is not the 15 seconds it takes to whip out and roll on a condom or dental dam. There is always time for that.
Sexy Showers.
Heat up as you cool down! While being caught up living your best life in the sun, hygiene is still important. So if you are sticky or uncomfortably hot during foreplay with your partner, move it to the shower! Check out our post on using coconut oils or eucalyptus that will leave you both your bodies fresh, soft to the touch and ready for action. The shower time can also double as foreplay!
Orgasms Sold Separately.
The heat can stir up the sexual intensity and arousal. Sometimes a partner can be so horny and aroused that their pop their cork before you do. That’s ok, and it does not mean that sex is over. Remind your partner, your glad they got theirs and are still looking forward to getting yours!
Heat, heat, heat it up!
Play with the heat! Let the heat be a part of your foreplay! Before going down to give your partner oral sex, grab an ice cube from the freezer. Slowly slide the cube of ice across their body, gently passing over the more sensitive areas like nipples and crevices. Relive the cold sensation with your warm mouth or tongue while engaging in eye contact. You can even cool down your mouth with the ice cube before licking their clitoris or penis. Steam it up!
Commando, baybeh.
Going commando can leave your fresh and breezy. With the hot air, it can be nice to catch a breeze where the sun doesn’t shine. It can be secret between you and your partner that will drive their imagination wild! Not only that, since we look good in damn near every color, make sure it is bright enough to leave a memorable imprint for your partner too. It will be the gift that keeps giving. Just be careful of how and where you side
